As the world becomes increasingly more connected, what is the role of privacy in your online identity? If you have any type of online identity at all, people probably know more about your life than ever before. How do you feel about this? Is it important to you to maintain a level of privacy?
I feel a bit conflicted on this. I don’t feel like I have anything to hide but currently I keep certain elements of my Facebook profile hidden. As an example, I only let certain friends view my photos. I do this because I only want certain people who I feel comfortable with to be able to see tagged photos of me.
At the same time though this I realize this is dumb.
I can always untag a photo of me if I don’t want people to see it right, but if the person who took the picture of me doesn’t take it down than what’s the point? The photo is still out there on the internet to be found. I’m just burying it a little deeper.
How do you handle this?
I think you have to be transparent. You can’t expect to bury anything and have it just go away. You’ve gotta be a PR person. Address it and move on. Don’t hide.
Everyone’s in the media business now.
There’s pictures of me on my facebook drinking alcohol, eating fast food, and making obscene gestures. (someone’s going right to Facebook to find these, haha) I don’t do any of these things anymore, so should I hide all of those photos because they don’t align with the person I am now? I suppose I could and I guess it’s really a personal choice, but I think it’s better to leave them up and not hide who I used to be.
I’m not proud of those things (although I did have some epic nights as a drinker) but it’s part of my story, ya know? Yea I got drunk, and did some stupid things. So what? I bet I’m not the only one
So after writing this I’ll probably be a little looser with my online privacy settings and see what happens.
Consequences
Do you see any possible consequences to this?
My hope is that through transparency our society will become a lot more accepting.
For example if I’m going through a tough part of my life I’ll be able to share it online and have support during that time. People will use their social networks for growth and development.
There could be negative consequences too. Maybe I’ll become unemployable because of my lack of privacy.
Here’s some questions to think about for comments:
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How do you handle your privacy on social networks?
Do you think transparency is a good idea or bad idea?
Looking forward to you answers! And Happy New Year!
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I like to be pretty open. But that is how I am in real life too.
There are few things I’m really ashamed of, few things I keep really private in my real life outside the internet.
If an employer can’t hire me based off of goofy pictures of when I’ve been drunk – then they probably aren’t a good match for me. And now days, if they DID base it off the simple stuff that IS out there about me, they would have no one to hire…
jk.
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Tom Holowka Reply:
January 3rd, 2010 at 11:47 am
Yea I don’t think it’s possible to be completely transparent. No one will ever know 100% of everything about you.
And you’re right on on the second part too.
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